Hyperbole is undervalued if you ask me. Not that anyone did, but if.
Here’s the WORST. I am apathetic. I am so apathetic right now I can’t decide if I should move or stay prone and starve to death. Starving is looking good. Anything else would take an effort, which is something I do not support.
And what’s with that Mueller report? Is it any surprise? Not really. I’m beginning to think we, meaning I, underestimated how venal and corrupt and self-serving the world is. I knew it was there, but the extent of the horribleness and widedpreadedness of it was not known to me.
I used to think people were basically good, a viewpoint I now see as hopelessly naive. Was I living under a rock? While it is true I had a reputation for naivete when I was young I had assumed, based on my experiences on a couple of continents, that the good people outnumbered the bad people, mostly because that’s what I kept running into. So I was living under a rock for most of my life, albeit a comfy and sheltered rock, which was probably the problem. I didn’t even know enough to know to venture outside of it. My life has been good, though occasionally problematic, but hasn’t everyone’s?
See what I mean? Assumptions.
And now I’m too broken to do much about it, not that I was all that effective before. People like me, and there are many of us, aren’t very effective. If we were things might be different. Or not. Maybe I’m inerently bad, but no one’s noticed. Or they have noticed but didn’t want to tell me, knowing how badly I’d take it. All I’ve ever wanted is to be good and for people to know it. Or at least that I meant well, but meaning isn’t doing, and perception isn’t reality, and my brain is less trustworthy than I thought.
Maybe it’s the brain damage, the little veins in my brain that have shut down for eternity, leaving entire brain cities deserted like long lost ghost towns, going bad for far longer than I suspected. Maybe it started with that first concussion my first husband gave me. And today I was told, yet again, that though he had left me as a beneficiary on even more accounts that I had no knowledge of, I would have to get a court order to get anything. They came to ME. And the SOB owed me. But no matter.
It is what it is, which is obviously banal and obvious.
Parkinson’s. Brain damage. Depression. Apathy. Fibromyalgia. My five horsemen of the apocalypse, bearing down on me so slowly that I still have enough time to kick up a fuss, go to the ocean, a ballgame, lunch with friends, maybe Hawaii. Enough time to do many things, but there will be no jumping out of airplanes again, no cliff diving, no marathons. Which is okay, because those things don’t matter to me. Andrew and Ash matter most of all, and I’m afraid I’ll have to watch my most lovely dog age. He’s fine now, but a bit slower, 13 at least count. That was a relief because I thought he was 14. I’ll watch Andrew age too, but since I’ve got such a head start it’ll be more traumatic for him than me.
This is maudlin and not the tone I was going for, but apathy will do that. Avoid it at all costs!